As of today, by my own choice, I'm no longer employed.
I carry a lot of mixed feelings on my way out the door;
there's a long story behind the making and timing of this decision.
That story doesn't belong on this blog, though -
not only because there are NDAs involved.
Instead, I want to briefly talk about what happens next,
as I enter my temporary (but extended) jobless era.
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I've spent a dizzying portion of my online life
trying my hardest to have one name for everything.
While I mostly succeeded on my own terms,
my preferred name does still vary slightly
across different contexts.
I wish I wasn't so picky about the details,
but since I am,
I suppose it would be best to be explicit about it.
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Recurring dates have held an almost superstitious position in my life
for as long as I can remember.
I'll give some examples:
for a few of my teenage years,
the 2nd day of a quarter (e.g. April 2, October 2, etc.)
had a reputation for being emotionally turbulent in some way.
A majority of my published simfile packs
were released on either January 1 or April 20 (try to contain your laughter);
little traditions etched into the calendar.
But there's one big recurrence in my life:
a comet, invisible to everyone but me,
that appears in the night sky every six years.
It's a deadline, and it arrives in 10 days.
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At the time of writing,
we're about 10 minutes into pride month,
and I just published a long post about computers.
Whoops!
I want something gayer on the front page of my website,
so here's a quick infodump about my particular brand of queerness.
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I've redesigned meow.garden from the ground up,
eschewing the "digital garden" concept in favor of something a little more home-grown.
The "cool stuff" from my monthly notes have been split out into their own section,
and the more interesting notes have been moved to a chronological sequence of posts.
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Over the course of a decade, I allowed Twitter to become my primary means of socialization. The vast majority of my public writing manifested as tweets. When I finally decided I was unhappy with the status quo, I created this digital garden as an alternative outlet for my prose & declared that "I don't have Twitter". I've since shortened this declaration to "Never Tweet", which is not only more actionable, but a more accurate characterization of my problems with the website.
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This is a name I made up for a pattern I noticed in my life: allowing minor inconveniences with obvious solutions to persist. The root cause is small enough to be disregarded, but the consequences can range anywhere from equally small to lifestyle-altering. These problems only take a brief moment of thought to identify, but I've learned it's surprisingly easy to let them pile up for no reason!
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